Not all things falls into its places

I thought everything was ok. I was so happy that for the time being we are free from stress and worries and we thought everything seems to be perfect. I guess its true that nothing is perfect in this world and life is boring without any problems.

Let me start with a good news.. we were able to find a small tutorial playgroup for Corbin. See my blogpost under Corby's turf for more info.

Last November, my hubby got an offer from an Oil and Gas company as Network Specialist. He applied for Desktop Support but was endorsed as Network Specialist. We're very happy about it because it all fits in.. the schedule is normal working hours he can regularly play guitar every sunday for Church, and the work is very challenging and somewhat what he really wanted plus its a new company thus more opportunity for growth. But it turned sour.. his boss is manipulative and very demanding, he's got alot of things he is expecting from Jun. During the interview he already set their expectation of the things he knows. Although it is a challenge to be able to be pushed beyond your limits, to be pushed out of your comfort zone, but my husband couldn't take it. It seems that his boss is quite disappointed and lost confidence in him because of the great expectations he has from Jun which was never met or exceeded. He is just new to networking implementation, he's more of the support guy so its definitely a challenge. He said he can bear with the work load but not the attitude of his boss towards him.

He stayed and bear the stress for 2 months. I guess out of frustration and fear that he will either be extended on his probationary period or kicked out of the company, he submitted his resume to one of our common friend to be referred to a Financial institution for a new job. This position requires a permanet night shift, although for the mean time he will have a saturday and sunday off, still its a perm night shift. I hate the idea of course, because we will suffer lack of time for each other and for Corbin as well. But since it was just a try.. i said go ahead, since you can see stress is getting into hime these days.

He got the position, the pay is very few hundreds difference from his current job, they dont have night allowance. I dont like it still but he was firm he can't stay in BWOil anymore. Aside from that our planned trip back to Philippines was affected. Since he signed to the new company, he was not allowed to go on leave during training period. It sucks! It sucks bigtime for me but I let him decide, and I prayed to God that whatever will be the best for us let it be.

Now im counting the days that we can all sleep together in one bed at night.

Still im praying for some miracles that in the new company there would be an opening for a morning shift slot and a better position that can hone his skills and knowledge in network support.

"God will not give us trials we cannot bear... He knows our limitations"

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